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The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Why ‘Good Enough’ Is the Best You Can Be

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The Myth of the Perfect Parent: Why ‘Good Enough’ Is the Best You Can Be

Letting Go of the Pressure

Modern parenting is full of contradictions, be nurturing but firm, gentle yet disciplined, involved but not overbearing. And somewhere between parenting books and school applications, the myth of the “perfect parent” persists. But what if the best thing you can be is not perfect, but present?

This idea underpins much of what The Navriti School believes about early childhood development. As one of the few science-based schools in India, Navriti’s approach supports parents who want a thoughtful, research-led environment, where learning and emotional wellbeing go hand in hand.

Whether you’re searching for nursery admission in Gurgaon or comparing top CBSE schools in Gurgaon, understanding what your child really needs at home and school is a powerful first step.

What Is “Good Enough” Parenting?

Coined by pediatrician Donald Winnicott, the term “good enough parenting” encourages parents to respond to their child’s emotional needs consistently, but without the unrealistic expectation of perfection.

It’s not about being always available or endlessly patient. It’s about:

  • Building trust through consistency
  • Modeling emotional regulation
  • Creating space for exploration and mistakes
  • Knowing when to step back, and when to support

At The Navriti School, these principles are echoed in daily classroom practice where educators prioritize “connection before correction” and create emotionally safe spaces for children to thrive.

Why It Matters in the Foundational Years

The early years shape how a child views themselves and the world around them. Children raised in emotionally attuned environments at home or in school tend to:

  • Be more confident and expressive
  • Develop better focus and problem-solving skills
  • Feel secure taking healthy risks in learning

That’s why schools like Navriti don’t just teach academics. Their model of Precision Schooling ensures early guidance for students, supporting emotional and cognitive development in equal measure.

Good Enough at Home, Supported at School

Here’s how “good enough” parenting translates into daily life:

  • Listening without rushing to fix
  • Setting gentle routines over rigid schedules
  • Encouraging effort, not only outcomes
  • Repairing mistakes through open conversations

When a school echoes these values—through metacognitive journaling, play-based learning, or social-emotional frameworks—it creates a seamless ecosystem of support. That’s what career-ready schools like Navriti aim to provide: not just academics, but aligned partnerships with parents.

Frequently Asked Questions

Won’t “good enough” parenting lead to lower standards?
Not at all. It promotes realistic expectations and nurtures resilience, qualities essential for long-term success.

How can I support this at home while my child is in school?
Choose a school that prioritizes child psychology, offers early guidance for students, and believes in precision schooling, like The Navriti School.

Does this approach align with top academic goals?
Yes. Emotional security enhances focus, memory, and engagement—all crucial for academic and future success.

Conclusion:

Children don’t need flawless parents or perfect schools. They need environments where they feel safe, valued, and seenat home and in class.As you explore the best new schools in Gurgaon or plan for nursery admission, remember: parenting isn’t about doing everything right. It’s about doing what matters, with love and intention.At The Navriti School, that belief runs deep supporting every child and every parent on a journey that’s real, reflective, and purpose-driven.

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